Are you “chronically lazy”? Do you miss deadlines more often than you like to admit? Do you want to get rid of this habit but can’t? Have you ever wondered why you struggle with procrastination so much? If yes, you are at the right blog post. It tells you all about why you procrastinate… and how you can manage it.
“Procrastination” comes from the Latin verb “procrastinare” — to put off until tomorrow. Procrastination also comes from the old Greek word “akrasia” — doing something against our better judgement.
So, why are you doing something against your better judgment? Because you cannot regulate your emotions. Dr. Tim Pychyl, who did too much research on procrastination says, “Procrastination is an emotion regulation problem, not a time management problem.” Neuroscience supports it, too.
Tasks associated with negative emotions activate the limbic system. You feel anxious about deadlines, a chore you don’t want to do, or an interview you want to skip because “you are sure you would fail.” This kicks in your fight or flight response. The flight response makes you procrastinate, actually.
Your procrastination can make you bored, anxious, insecure, frustrated, resentful, and doubtful. However, all these emotions can push you further away from the task you must do. Laziness makes you lazier and lazier until you just can’t get up to do anything.
For example, you have a big deadline at your workplace. You idle your time away lazily because you fear the deadline. Similarly, you may procrastinate on completing a book you might be writing because you fear it will not become a bestseller.
The conscious mind, often referred to as the “inner parent,” is the rational and logical part that aims to lead us towards our goals and aspirations.
On the other hand, the subconscious mind, known as the “inner child,” is driven by past fears and experiences, acting as a formidable force that can sometimes hinder our progress. It is this part of our mind that tends to pull us away from our conscious goals, creating a sense of resistance that can be hard to overcome.
You should start seeing our mind as a complex organisation with different departments. Each department is responsible for different functions and decision-making processes. As a result, you can dig a bit deeper as to why exactly you act lazy for some tasks and not others.
Once we start approaching these conflicting parts with curiosity and compassion, we begin to understand that both the conscious and subconscious minds are working towards our highest good, just in different ways. The key to overcoming procrastination is to build teamwork within ourselves, to get these two teams communicating and collaborating.
Here are 4 steps for self-reflection to work on your personal procrastination triggers at the subconscious level:
Step 1: Think about the task that you have let sit for quite a long time.
Step 2: Close your eyes. See how your mind and body react when you think about that task. Focus on that feeling (Repulsiveness? Sadness? Cringe?) . Try to picture the problem in a color or an object.
Step 3: Ask your body… is there a fear or insecurity that is stopping me? What is my deeper emotion about getting the task done? What must I do to fulfill my emotional needs?
Step 4: Now, imagine a different color in the same area of your body. It represents how you will feel when you finish the task. It can help you focus on the good things that come from acting quickly. Keep this color in mind to motivate yourself whenever procrastination tries to hit.
Here are some common triggers:
Fear of failure Procrastination: This can force you to be lazy to avoid the possibility of not succeeding at something, i.e. a presentation.
Perfectionism Procrastination: You may want everything to be perfect… which cannot happen mostly. As a result, your mind can go into paralysis… an inability to start or finish tasks.
Feeling overwhelmed: You might think that large, complex tasks may not let you win. So, you may procrastinate to avoid the embarrassment of failure or falling short on standards.
Boredom or lack of interest: You can put uninteresting or time-taking tasks on the back burner, i.e. be lazy about them.
Here they are:
Fear of Failure:
Break down large tasks into smaller, manageable steps.
Focus on progress, not perfection.
Celebrate small wins and milestones.
Reframe failure as a learning opportunity.
Perfectionism:
Set realistic goals and deadlines.
Allow yourself to make mistakes.
Practice self-compassion.
Use the “good enough” principle instead of aiming for perfection.
Feeling Overwhelmed:
Create a to-do list and prioritize tasks.
Delegate tasks if possible.
Start with the smallest, easiest task on your list to gain momentum.
Boredom or Lack of Interest:
Reward yourself for completing the task.
Try to find ways to make the task more interesting (e.g., listen to music, work in a different environment).
Partner up with someone to complete the task together for accountability.
Consider if there’s a way to delegate or eliminate the task altogether.
Remember, it’s important to…
Addressing the root cause of your procrastination is more effective than simply forcing yourself to work.
Experiment with different strategies to find what works best for you.
Be patient and kind to yourself. Breaking the cycle of procrastination can take time and effort.
By understanding your triggers and applying targeted strategies, you can overcome procrastination and achieve your goals.
Procrastination anxiety can often be a signal from your subconscious mind that something deeper needs to be addressed. Techniques like hypnotherapy and parts therapy can help you access your subconscious and explore the underlying fears or limiting beliefs driving your procrastination.
Parts therapy is a type of hypnotherapy where the therapist communicates with the client’s unconscious mind by accessing different parts or characters within the psyche.
Hypnotherapy for Procrastination allows for a safe space to be created where the client can explore their inner thoughts and emotions without any judgement.
By delving deep into our unconscious minds and understanding the root causes of our procrastination, we can finally break free from its grip and move towards a more fulfilling life.
Let me tell you a story about a young artist named Emily, who dreamed of creating magnificent paintings but found herself constantly putting off picking up the brush. This story, simple yet profound, will help us understand mental blocks, their impact, and how we can overcome them.
Emily’s story begins with these invisible barriers. Just like her, we all have subconscious blockages. These are like weeds in a garden, grown from bad experiences in the past. Emily doubted her skills due to a harsh critique she received as a child. This self-doubt, along with fears of rejection, criticism, and failure, formed thick walls around her heart.
She wanted her art to be perfect, which made starting any new piecedaunting. Her lack of commitment and motivation were the padlocks on these walls, leading her to procrastinate.
Emily started to become more self-aware when she noticed she repeated her behaviours. She asked herself, “Why do I stop every time I want to paint?” You need this awareness, too. It will help you to recognise and resolve your mental blocks.
Those blocks stopped Emily from not only painting, but also from following her passion. So, she was not able to live her best life. Once she resolved them… she was ready to paint to her heart’s content.
Overcome Fears and Self Doubts
Emily’s subconscious was actually trying to protect her from upcoming pain and disappointment. However, it also kept her away from being happy. Your subconscious mind holds on to your outdated fears… and brings them out at the worst times.
Now, here’s where the magic of neuroplasticity comes into our story. Emily learned that her brain could be reshaped. She began practising positive self-talk, gradually replacing her fears and doubts with affirmations and confidence.
She understood that each small step she took towards her art rewired her brain, forming new, healthier pathways.
She started setting small, achievable goals. Each time she completed a piece, no matter how small, she celebrated her progress. This celebration reinforced her new positive mindset, slowly breaking down the walls of her mental blocks.
In time, Emily’s garden of creativity bloomed. The walls that once held her back crumbled, and she found herself painting with a freedom she hadn’t felt since she was a child.
Her story teaches us that while mental blocks are common, they are not permanent fixtures. With understanding, patience, we can overcome them and realise our true potential.
Procrastination anxiety happens when you don’t do something because you are afraid of failure. However, you can manage it if you recognise and resolve your negative thoughts about that task. You can practise self-awareness. You can also learn tips to stay more active and meet deadlines more.
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“Procrastination” is derived from the Latin verb “procrastinare” — to put off until tomorrow. But it’s more than just voluntarily delaying. Procrastination is also derived from the ancient Greek word “akrasia” — doing something against our better judgment.
So, why are we doing something against our better judgment? Contrary to the traditional view of procrastination as a time management issue, recent insights reveal it to be an emotional regulation problem. Dr. Tim Pychyl, a prominent figure in procrastination research, emphasizes this point, stating, “Procrastination is an emotion regulation problem, not a time management problem.” This notion is supported by neuroscience, which shows that tasks associated with negative emotions activate the limbic system.
When faced with a challenging task, individuals often experience feelings of anxiety and overwhelm, which can trigger a flight response. This automatic reaction, rooted in our primal instincts, is aimed at helping us flee from it entirely. This response can sometimes lead to irrational behavior as our body’s survival mechanisms kick into high gear. In this way, the flight response serves as a way for our bodies to protect us from perceived threats, even if they are not necessarily physical dangers.
When we procrastinate, it is often due to our attempts to avoid a variety of negative emotions that are connected to a specific task that we need to complete. These emotions may include feelings of boredom, anxiety, insecurity, frustration, resentment, and self-doubt, all of which can significantly impact our motivation to tackle the task at hand.
To provide a clear illustration, imagine you are faced with a significant deadline at your workplace. In response to this looming deadline, you may find yourself procrastinating because you are feeling overwhelmed and anxious about the challenging work that needs to be completed. Similarly, if you are working on writing a novel, you may delay the process due to a fear of failure that is causing you to doubt your abilities. Recognizing and acknowledging these emotions is an essential initial step in understanding the underlying reasons for our procrastination tendencies.
Once the cycle of procrastination begins, it can quickly spiral out of control, trapping us in a detrimental pattern of avoidance. As we continue to delay the task, our feelings of anxiety and being overwhelmed only intensify, making it even more challenging to muster the motivation to make progress. Consequently, the increased levels of anxiety and feelings of being overwhelmed only serve to increase the likelihood of further procrastination, leading to a self-reinforcing loop of stress, guilt, and continued avoidance that can be incredibly challenging to break free from.
To overcome procrastination, it’s essential to understand the emotional and subconscious forces at play in our minds. Think of your mind as a never-ending tug-of-war, a battle between the conscious and subconscious mind. The conscious mind, often referred to as the “inner parent,” is the rational and logical part that aims to lead us towards our goals and aspirations.
On the other hand, the subconscious mind, known as the “inner child,” is driven by past fears and experiences, acting as a formidable force that can sometimes hinder our progress. It is this part of our mind that tends to pull us away from our conscious goals, creating a sense of resistance that can be hard to overcome. This resistance is rooted in a desire to protect us from emotional pain and unmet needs, ultimately leading to self-sabotage.
When we view our mind as a complex organization with different departments responsible for various functions and decision-making processes, we can begin to delve deeper into the reasons behind our procrastination tendencies.
By establishing clear communication channels between our conscious and subconscious minds, we can work towards understanding the underlying motivations and beliefs that drive our behavior. It is crucial to ensure that the tasks we undertake align with our core values and identity, as this alignment will facilitate a harmonious collaboration between the different parts of our mind, ultimately helping us overcome procrastination and achieve our goals effectively.
Once we start approaching these conflicting parts with curiosity and compassion, we begin to understand that both the conscious and subconscious minds are working towards our highest good, just in different ways. The key to overcoming procrastination is to build teamwork within ourselves, to get these two teams communicating and collaborating.
By delving deeper into our subconscious and understanding the unmet emotional needs that drive our behaviors, we can begin the process of dismantling the barriers that stand in the way. Here are 4 key steps for self-reflection to work on your personal procrastination triggers at the subconscious level:
Step 1: Think about the task that you have procrastinated for a while.
Step 2: Close your eyes. Notice how your body reacts when you think about that task. Focus on how it feels and try to picture the problem in a color or an object.
Step 3: Ask your body, is there a fear or insecurity behind it? What is my deeper emotions related to getting the task done? What needs to happen in order to fill my emotional needs?
Step 4: Now, picture a different color in the same area of your body, that represents how you will feel when you finish the task. This can remind you of the good things that come from not waiting. Keep this color in mind to stay motivated and reach your goals.
Here are some common triggers to consider:
By recognizing your triggers, you can anticipate your response and develop strategies to manage it.
Once you understand your triggers, you can equip yourself with tools to overcome procrastination anxiety and meet those deadlines:
Fear of Failure:
Perfectionism:
Feeling Overwhelmed:
Boredom or Lack of Interest:
Remember, it’s important to…
Procrastination anxiety can often be a signal from your subconscious mind that something deeper needs to be addressed. Techniques like hypnotherapy and parts therapy can help you access your subconscious and explore the underlying fears or limiting beliefs driving your procrastination.
Parts therapy is a type of hypnotherapy where the therapist communicates with the client’s unconscious mind by accessing different parts or characters within the psyche. Hypnotherapy for Procrastination allows for a safe space to be created where the client can explore their inner thoughts and emotions without any judgment. By delving deep into our unconscious minds and understanding the root causes of our procrastination, we can finally break free from its grip and move towards a more fulfilling life.
Let me tell you a story about a young artist named Emily, who dreamed of creating magnificent paintings but found herself constantly putting off picking up the brush. This story, simple yet profound, will help us understand mental blocks, their impact, and how we can overcome them.
Emily’s story begins with these invisible barriers. Just like her, we all have subconscious blockages. These are like weeds in a garden, grown from bad experiences in the past. Emily doubted her skills due to a harsh critique she received as a child. This self-doubt, along with fears of rejection, criticism, and failure, formed thick walls around her heart. She wanted her art to be perfect, which made starting any new piece daunting. Her lack of commitment and motivation were the padlocks on these walls, leading her to procrastinate.
Emily’s journey to self-awareness began when she noticed patterns in her behavior. She asked herself, “Why do I hesitate every time I want to paint?” This self-reflection is key. To identify your mental blocks, like Emily, you must become an observer of your own thoughts and reactions. Notice when you hesitate, make excuses, or feel unusually anxious about starting something new.
For Emily, these blocks were not just stopping her from painting; they were preventing her from fulfilling her true potential and experiencing joy in her passion. Mental blocks, if left unaddressed, can lead to a life half-lived, full of ‘what ifs’ and regrets.
Emily’s subconscious was like an overprotective friend, trying to shield her from potential pain and disappointment. However, in doing so, it also kept her away from growth and happiness. The subconscious mind is powerful, but it can sometimes hold onto outdated fears and insecurities.
Now, here’s where the magic of neuroplasticity comes into our story. Emily learned that her brain could be reshaped. She began practicing positive self-talk, gradually replacing her fears and doubts with affirmations and confidence. She understood that each small step she took towards her art rewired her brain, forming new, healthier pathways.
She started setting small, achievable goals. Each time she completed a piece, no matter how small, she celebrated her progress. This celebration reinforced her new positive mindset, slowly breaking down the walls of her mental blocks.
In time, Emily’s garden of creativity bloomed. The walls that once held her back crumbled, and she found herself painting with a freedom she hadn’t felt since she was a child. Her story teaches us that while mental blocks are common, they are not permanent fixtures. With understanding, patience, we can overcome them and realize our true potential.
You are not alone in this struggle. Procrastination anxiety is a common challenge. But remember, you have the power to overcome it. By understanding the emotional roots of procrastination, employing effective strategies, and practicing self-awareness, you can conquer procrastination anxiety and achieve your goals with greater confidence and productivity.
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