First and foremost, with couples, the therapists at Make It Happen Hypnotherapy use regression to understand the root causes that have brought the relationship to a halt. Mostly, each partner is seen having a specific distress pattern that they have acquired from childhood and which has carried into their adult life.
Having understood the distress pattern, the therapist applies hypnotherapy where a trance-like state is induced in the individual. Further, the therapist works side-by-side with one of the partners in engaging with their most stubborn thoughts emanating from the subconscious. Also, the therapist rekindles the love that has faded through positive monologue.
The effort here is to bring back the initial feelings of love when they first got introduced to each other. Having said that, a therapist expects both partners to make an equal effort in bringing back the old joy and intimacy in the relationship.
Hypnotherapy is the essential component here. In the case of hypnotherapy for intimacy, the therapist introduces new ideas and thoughts into the individual during the trance-like state. This is because, in a hypnotic state, the individual remains highly open and sensitive to suggestions. These suggestions are known to bring about long-time behavioral change.
Apart from this, the therapist also heals the “inner-child” – the part of the subconscious that is creative, spontaneous, and playful. But due to emotional scars from the past, it has become non-functional. With hypnotherapy, the “inner child” is healed and positive changes such as self-confidence, self-worth, and self-acceptance are brought forth in the individuals. As a result, they become capable of love and affection to their partner.
Another technique used for each of the partners is “Parts Therapy”. In the case of ‘Parts Therapy’, the conflicting voices within the minds of individuals are brought under control through dialogue during hypnosis. These conflicting voices have their origins in the subconscious and the therapist positively engages with these voices/ opinions to bring about a better perspective about life in the individuals.